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Happiest Season
Lesbians have been given a gift — a film by us, starring us, and for us. Clea DuVall’s Happiest Season feels so necessary at a time of intersecting crises. And, I cannot express the absolute joy I felt upon seeing Kristen Stewart play a lesbian in a lesbian movie — a lesbian Christmas movie! Seeing…
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How Oppression Works
If the goal is liberation, “Who is Oppressed?” is not a particularly productive question, as even the most powerful of people can display that they, too, harbor some form of oppression, usually legible in acts of petulance. Righteous indignation, despite their power. Blistering red in the face, they yell “Victim!” repeatedly, any time accountability is…
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Citation is a Feminist Act
A few years ago, I read a popular academic feminist book in which the popular feminist author said she was going to do something radical and not quote any white men. Which meant she plagiarized them, instead. She not only plagiarized white men, but she also plagiarized a certain lesbian feminist who was a mentor…
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The Cost of Acceptance: Reflections
NBC Think asked me to write a short, 200-word reflection on my recent article on Ellen, George W. Bush, and the cost of acceptance. Below is the full version, which was condensed for the newsletter. Central to my analysis of Ellen Degeneres’ defense of her friendship with former US president George W. Bush is the…
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Writing Revision
If reading was the most noble act, for Ellen, then writing was the most dangerous. This is why at the ripe age of 14, she decided to exchange tickling the ivories with writing in her journal. This is why she became a literature scholar. Teaching put both reading and writing into practice. Through teaching, she…
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About That “Fire Tweet”
I’m tickled to have had a “fire tweet” on Buzzfeed’s AM/DM — a simple tweet calling out the sexist double standards of the presidential candidate coverage and public perception. The 52K+ people who have liked this tweet fully understand that the political arena — from media coverage to $$ — has not made the space…
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Colonoscopy
Colonoscopy I am the opposite of someone who is crippled by anxiety. When I am anxious about something, I race toward it, sometimes heedlessly, sometimes without proper caution. The drive is one of impatience; positively, this trait could be perceived as bravery, but, realistically, I’ll admit to being impatient. Because I had two young,…
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“Scotty and the Secret History of Hollywood”
Last night, I saw Scotty and the Secret History of Hollywood, a new documentary by Matt Tyrnauer about Scott Bowers, Hollywood’s ultimate serviceman. The documentary, inspired by Bowers’s tell-all memoir, Full Service: My Adventures in Hollywood and the Secret Lives of the Stars, is promising in its subject matter but ultimately fails to deliver. Bowers’s…
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August 10
It’s my birthday! If you know me, you know that I love Bette Davis. Fittingly, I received this gift—an autographed photo of the queen: A friend of mine also sent along this amazing image of Bette Davis, chomping on some birthday cake with her bare hands: Thanks to all my friends who sent me…